“Just being present”: NFL star Patrick Mahomes' mother Randi Mahomes shares heartfelt advice for single moms

Randi Mahomes , mother of NFL quarterback Patrick Mahomes , has never shied away from being her authentic self. Recently, she opened up about being a “loud, crazy mom,” proudly embracing the role with humor and heart. While some might find the phrase unconventional, for Randi, it’s a badge of honor, a reflection of her passionate support, tireless dedication, and hands-on approach to raising her children.

From loud cheers to quiet support, Randi Mahomes says presence matters more than perfection
During a candid live Q&A session on Instagram this Tuesday, Randi Mahomes, opened up about the realities of being a single mom and offered heartfelt advice for others walking the same path.




When asked, “What is the best piece of advice for single moms?” While multitasking, doing laundry and reflecting, Randi didn’t hesitate to respond with honesty and warmth. “Hey guys, I know a lot of you are single parents, and as a single mom, I had to juggle a lot. But my suggestion is being present is the biggest, number one, cost-free, it’s zero to be present for your children.”

“And just being present, you don’t have to be the loud, crazy mom that I used to be sometimes, screaming from the stands. You don’t have to be some of the other moms might be decked out or something.” Her response was a powerful reminder that true support doesn’t always require grand gestures or financial means. Sometimes, it’s simply about showing up whether that means being in the stands, helping with homework, or just listening.

“Just being there, being there, letting your kids know that you love them and you support them. And I just think that’s a huge lesson that doesn’t cost anything. I just think that’s pretty special,” she concluded. As someone who has been through the highs and lows of raising a child in the public eye, Randi understands the pressure sports parents often feel.

“As a sports parent, you want to be involved in everything. You want to cheer the loudest, give the best advice. And make sure your child has every opportunity.” Her words reflect the emotional intensity many parents experience, especially when trying to give their children the best possible shot at success.

But even with the best intentions, Randi admits that parenting can come with its humbling moments. “There was a time when Patrick came to me and said something that made me completely rethink how I was supporting him. And let me tell you, it wasn’t easy to hear.” That moment of reflection helped her shift her perspective from being overly involved to being more emotionally attuned to what her son really needed.

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Randi Mahomes' reflections are a reminder that parenting isn’t about being the loudest or the most visible, it’s about being there in the ways that truly matter. Her honest and grounded advice speaks to the strength of single mothers and the enduring power of simply being present.